This days, it’s one of the most hottest reality show that people love to discuss (at least me and my friends does ;) )

In THO, 30 man decide, whether they would date one of 7 woman that presented to them, and vice versa in TMO.

Personally I thought it’s pretty brutal and not ethical ( yup, I do realize I am just an old fashioned women ;)   ), but people seem to like it, it proof by the rate of this show is 30, which mean, every week 30% of people who has TV would choose this show  instead of the other TV programs on any other channel.

I wonder why?

Me? I must admit it all just because the hosts, they just charming :p

I wonder, after every weeks they try to hook people together, maybe someway and somehow they would also hook up each other :P

But still,  I’m not a fan of this show, I don’t really remember the schedule of this show, its just pure coincident, in short : I’m not one of the 30% ;)

Instead, I must admit this show also just frightened me…

I am afraid whether this show really portrays the real world…..

The average behaviors of the participants (the one whom choose-the 30 man/woman) of this show are so shallow, they judge and label people just based on first impression, they even have the heart to express their judge out loud, not to mention also on harsh words….

But on the other hand, as much as I think they seem desperate (weather is desperately looking for soul mate/fame or maybe desperately want to be on TV), I must admit I praise the finalist (the 7 she/he), it wasn’t easy to show up on the show wondering whether she/he will be chose or dump by those 30 persons in front of the 30% people whom got TV :P

I am a realistic-romantic and religious woman, so regarding this show see on those 3 perspectives:

So when I use logic, I realize : no pain no gain, so maybe that the concept of the show, just try being positive thinking, maybe this show mean no harm, they just another verse of “date sevices”, that doesnt seem pathetic or desperate, right?! :) )

But when I use my romantic side, I believe love it something you grow with, it should be sacred and beautiful, and the most important things is love doesn’t judge…

And finally, my religious side believes every person has a soul mate, just be patient…. dont need to do something unethical that just brought shame … after all shame is also a virtue, it show what should and what you shouldn’t do in public right?I believe God would give everything that we need in the right time, at the right place and with the right person ;)

It all add up and conlclude that : I just dont like those show… ;)

I say,  leave it…

how about U?